Defining "beauty"

It's an obscure word, isn't it? Abstract, too. Societal norms mark highly on this term and so many people have been negatively affected by it. How are you supposed to live in a society where judgment is always being cast? Sure, people say they don't judge, but honestly & for the most part, they're trying to make themselves appear to be nice and good. Have you ever looked at someone and remarked upon how a certain feature or another looks less than beautiful? It's automatic that we cast our opinions about how others look. Unfortunately, very few of us have the confidence to rise above negativity to comfort our own self to see that our own beauty is beautiful.